This pilot randomized placebo controlled study will include 60 men (30 treatment and 30 placebo). ARM 1 will take flibanserin 100mg orally every night and ARM 2 will take a placebo orally every night. There will be four study visits and the study duration is approximately 4 months. Participants will have physicals at each visit. Blood draws for tests will be done at 3 visits and up to 4 questionnaires will completed at each visit. Study drug will randomized.